This is my brother-in-law Andrew, Michael's younger brother. He was 48. Last week we had the sad duty of attending Andrew's funeral in Albany, Western Australia after Andrew suddenly passed away.

There is almost nothing sadder than watching the pain of a parent laying to rest a child. Andrew, however, has made such an impact to other people's lives, it is almost as if he has lived more than one lifetime. 

While Andrew was very much family oriented, he lived away from his family, but at the same time had developed new family with the many friends, colleagues and mates in Sydney (and I really do mean many!). 

A funeral is always going to be a difficult and sad time. Meeting so many wonderful people, however, changed the way I saw the event. Seeing so many dedicated friends and listen to their stories about Andrew brought not only sadness but laughter and gratitude for what Andrew brought to so many people's lives. The talker. The practical joker. The dedicated and generous mate. You could instantly tell how loved Andrew is and always will be.

Although it has been a terribly emotional and sad period in our family, we have been reminded of the impact Andrew had on so many people throughout his life. This provides some comfort.

Rest in peace dear brother.